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The 2-Minute
Door Knock

A simple format you can follow every time. You do not need to memorise it — just keep it natural and warm.

A hand knocking on an orange door with a friendly Hi! speech bubble

Knock. Smile.

Stand 2 steps back. This gives the resident space and feels less threatening.

Say your name.

Keep it simple and warm. Tell them where you live.

"Hi, I'm [your name]. I live on floor [X]."

Say why you're there.

Be clear and friendly. You are not selling anything.

"I'm a community connector — just helping neighbours meet and make friends."

Ask one question.

Then listen. Don't talk over them. Let them finish.

"What's one thing you love doing in your spare time?"

Invite them.

Be specific — say the day, time, and what it is.

"We have [activity] on [day]. Would you like to come?"

Make it easy.

A text reminder removes the barrier of forgetting. Most people will say yes to this.

"Can I send you a reminder by text?"

Close warmly.

End on a high note. The last 30 seconds are what people remember.

"Lovely to meet you. I hope to see you there."

How does this resident like to be contacted?

Every resident is different. The art of invitation is knowing how each person likes to be reached. Pay attention and adapt.

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Corridor chat

Some residents love a friendly hello in the hallway, lobby, or laundry room. This is the easiest and most natural way to connect. No door knock needed — just be present and warm.

💡 Best for: residents you already know by face.

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Door knock

A door knock works well for many residents — but not all. If someone opens the door and looks uncomfortable, keep it very short and friendly. Don't push. Say you'll come back another time.

💡 Best for: residents you haven't met yet.

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SMS or WhatsApp

Many residents prefer a short text message over a door knock. Once you have their number, SMS and WhatsApp are fast and low-pressure. A short message is easy to reply to when they are ready.

💡 Best for: residents who gave you their number.

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Flyer or note

A handwritten note or printed flyer under the door is a gentle, non-intrusive way to invite someone. It works well for residents who are shy or who were not home when you knocked.

💡 Best for: residents who are rarely home or seem shy.

If a resident says "please don't knock on my door"

Respect it immediately. Say: "Of course — I completely understand. I won't knock again."

Note it down. Write the unit number in your notes so you remember.

Tell your pod. Let your fellow connectors and your coordinator know, so no one else knocks on that door either.

You can still invite them — try a note under the door or a friendly hello in the hallway if you see them.

Use 4 channels to invite people

Research shows that people need to hear about an event multiple times before they come. Use at least 4 different ways to invite and remind them.

🗣️Face to face

The most powerful invite. Personal and warm. Always try this first.

"I thought of you for this — I'd love you to come."

📱SMS or WhatsApp

Easy to send, easy to reply to. Good for reminders the day before.

"Hi! Just a reminder — coffee morning tomorrow at 10 AM in the lobby. Hope to see you! 😊"

📄Flyer or note

Something physical they can put on their fridge. Works well for shy residents.

A printed flyer with the event name, date, time, and location.

🏠Common area notice

A poster in the lobby, elevator, or laundry room reaches people you haven't met yet.

A bright, simple poster with the event details. Change it each week so it feels fresh.

Remember: A personal, face-to-face invite is the most effective — people are 4× more likely to come when asked directly by someone they know. (Milardo, 1988) Follow up with a text reminder the day before. Consistent, multi-channel outreach builds community over time.

Pro Tips

If they are not home: Leave a handwritten "Missed You" note. Come back next week and say hello.

If they seem nervous: Keep it short. Say you'll be back. Don't push.

The Science: People remember the first 30 seconds and the last 30 seconds most. Make both warm. (Kahneman — Peak-End Rule)

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